Bao mother and grandma live together with constant conflicts
Since I took the baby to live with my grandmother, my grandmother and I often have a lot of friction and quarrels. I didn't want to live with Baobao's grandmother, but there was nowhere to go, and renting a house would cost money. I would rather give my grandmother the money for renting a house as living expenses. And the place where my grandmother lives also requires me to pay the rent every year, so there is no need to spend more money to rent two places. Had to live here. I don't get along with my baby's grandmother. She was always arranging me with her ideas, and she kept on nagging, and I was distracted by the nagging. I remember that after I gave birth, I specially asked her to take care of my confinement, and she always nagged and couldn't stop talking. I keep telling her not to do this, I really can't stand it, I ask her to make me clean, but every other day at most, she starts nagging again, I'm even more depressed, she always tells me what happened to my husband's family I was so angry that I couldn't sleep all night when I bullied her. In order to protect her, I always quarreled with my husband and cried often. I told her, if you do this again, I will get a divorce. Please, stop nagging me. But it didn't work, my dear mother still kept her true colors as always, just because she was afraid that I would have a clean ear during confinement, she just kept nagging me and said something that made me angry. Once I was so angry with her that I started crying, yelling, and hammering the bed with my fists. I was driven mad by her. I lost control of my emotions and started screaming. At that time, the baby was very small and lying Next to me, my fist kept falling beside the baby's small head, and the baby was so frightened that she cried. I was mad because I kept trying to persuade her to stop nagging me, and not to talk about others without knowing it, but she still did. I was screaming with all my strength, in the hammer bed... She was afraid of the baby and took the baby away. I am so distressed that I hurt the baby...why does my mother do this to me? In fact, my husband wanted my mother-in-law to take care of my confinement, but I thought it would be better for my own mother to be by my side. In addition, I wanted the baby to like her mother and let one more person in the world treat her well. In fact, I also had concerns before letting her take care of me. I was afraid that she was not here to help me, but to make me sad. I know best what kind of person my own mother is. But I still let her come. I can't take care of her at ordinary times, so don't worry about it. But her performance was beyond my imagination. I even told her directly, Mom, please let me go, you can't treat me like this. I'm still taking care of my body, but you are always nagging and provoking my relationship with my husband's family every day. I get angry and cry for you again and again. This is so torturous. Every time I told her not to do this again, but she felt as if I was bullying her, and she couldn't see it because she—the confinement daughter was always angry and crying, because she—her own daughter and her husband Do you quarrel in the middle of the night? She always has a kind-hearted look, telling me to pay attention to my body, to be careful about this and that, but it hurts me every day. Let me do what I hate. She always looked pitiful, but her temper became strong, domineering and powerful, as if the whole world was trying to accommodate her. In this world, only parents cannot choose. Bad parents and bad family of origin will have a profound impact on a person's life. I saw a movie where an unemployed mother asked her son to kill his grandparents, and the son did. While in prison, the son still loved his mother. For a child, having a mother who raises her own is the closest thing to a child. This kind of blood and kinship is difficult to give up until death. Although the mother in the movie did not take good care of her son, she even let her son do something dehumanizing. But this boy has only had the purest love for his mother from beginning to end, and no matter what his mother does to him, he cannot give up his love for his mother. A child's love for his mother is persistent and pure, long-term and unstoppable. A bad mother is doomed to a child's tragic life.