Should a married woman with no house, no family and no support be bullied?
Hi, everyone, I'm Tongtong's mother. This Mid-Autumn Festival is still back to my husband's house to spend. One is that the father-in-law repeatedly asked to take the baby back, and the other also wanted the baby's grandmother to sleep well for three days. So when the baby's father came to pick me up, I didn't say much, just packed up the daily necessities and went with me. On the morning of the Mid-Autumn Festival, my father-in-law took the baby to play. Because it was a traditional festival, some relatives came back, and the relatives who lived next to the in-law's family also came to say hello. The Mid-Autumn Festival is the day I am most afraid of. I am afraid of meeting my in-laws and relatives. Later, I heard the voice of my mother-in-law's aunt. As soon as I heard her voice, I really didn't want to go out, but I was worried that the baby couldn't hide. As soon as I walked out, my mother-in-law pointed at me and said, "This **** is not to be hugged." I answered her immediately, you can just not splash her face with saliva, she said, where do I have so much saliva? I remember that this year the baby cried when he saw strangers and was unwilling to be hugged by others. During the Spring Festival, they are all relatives of their family. They must hold the baby, especially this aunt and her in-laws. At that time, a bunch of people were standing, all looking at me and the baby. I was embarrassed to refuse, and let the baby cry and be held and played by them. Because the baby kept crying, the mother-in-law and the sister-in-law of the mother-in-law began to say something unhappy and questioned the baby: Don't you know me? etc Look at this fun. The baby was frightened and cried more than ever. Then their saliva kept splashing on the baby's face, and even when her sister-in-law opened a mouthful of saliva and sprayed it directly on the baby's face, I was too sad to look at it. I was heartbroken, but didn't dare to say a word out of face. I don't know how the baby got back into my hands, I blame myself, what am I worried about as a mother, seeing such a small baby crying all the time, but I can only watch, what kind of mother am I, I don't even care. Can't decide who to hold your child? In fact, I saw it at the time. They were intentional. Seeing that the baby didn't like them, they even spread the dissatisfaction with the baby's grandmother and me on the baby. What's wrong with such a small child, why should you bully her? The topic went back to the Mid-Autumn Festival. At that time, after talking with my mother-in-law, I turned around to get something on the table, and suddenly someone grabbed my hair. At that time, I had my hair tied at the back of my head, and she pulled hard with her hands. I didn't react and was completely annoyed. I backhandedly broke her hand that was pulling my hair, and said to her: Last time you twisted my hand, pull my hair today! I probably didn't expect that I would dare to say this, and she didn't say a word. At that time, I didn't wear glasses, so I couldn't see her expression, as well as the expressions of my parents-in-law and aunt. I was still in my pajamas and just stood there and she left. I was very angry at the time. I usually try to respect her and treat her well when I see her. She bullied me with words again and again. Last time, she even twisted my hand secretly. Lower your baby's chin. This time I even pulled my hair in front of my parents-in-law and baby. I kept on putting it back on respect and friendliness, and gradually started to do something to me. Is it because I usually talk too much, so you have to bully me? Is it because I have no house, no family, no father, so you bully me again and again, I treat you as a family member, but you want to bully me everywhere . Why do I always have to be patient, I can't take it anymore! I ran to the baby's father and told him that he had murdered his aunt just now. He immediately stared at me and asked, "Why did you murder her?" I said she was too deceiving, and this time she actually pulled my hair. Is it because I am too honest and will be bullied, don't bully honest people!