I saved money and bought a fence for my baby and asked my dad to help me with it
Hi, everyone, I'm Tongtong's mother. My baby and I both rely on my grandmother. Usually, my grandmother helps me take the baby, I have time to take it myself. I often take the baby alone, and I don’t feel relieved when I leave. So I want to buy a fence. I have seen many kinds of fences, and the one I like most is the fence that is installed on the bed, but we are a wooden bed, and I am afraid that it will not fit. This kind of fence is suitable for beds with cushions. Press it up and that's it. Later, I asked the customer service and said that the wooden bed can also be installed, and nails need to be driven. But I was afraid that I wouldn't be able to install it, so after hesitating for a long time, I finally bought it. After I received the goods, I immediately started to install it. It was installed, but the nails could not be screwed into the board. I inserted a nail into the seam of the bed board, but the fence was wobbly. I tried to screw it into the board, but I was too strong. It's too small to do it at all. I told her father to help him put it down, but he was reluctant when he saw it. All of a sudden, I said I couldn't understand how to install it, and all of a sudden I blamed me for not being able to install it and buying it. It's really sad, it's usually too hard to ask him to do something. Now that I am separated, I have my own baby, and I can do everything by myself. It doesn't matter if the money doesn't come out, it's just that he doesn't want to ask him to help out. In fact, no matter how tired I was, if I could do it myself, I wouldn't call him. This time I really didn't have the strength to do it, so I asked him to help. This is for the baby, your own daughter, don't you want to do it? I couldn't help arguing with him again in front of the baby. It is really sad to quarrel in front of the baby every time, worried that it will have a bad impact on the baby. Thinking of his attitude and what he said is really sad, I will let him go, I will do it myself. Couldn't hold back the tears falling. When he saw that I was really angry, he didn't leave and started to pretend. I said don't do it, you go. I won't thank you even if you pretend, so go away. But he had to pretend, and finally he pretended... But I was already very chilled. I still thought about him too well, so I called him to help. Although I thought that he might not be willing to help me, I didn't expect After being separated for so long, he didn't want to help our mother and daughter to make up for it. Where I want to spend money, I pay for it myself, and I didn't ask him for it. When he needs to pay off his debts, I borrow money to help him. He also blamed my mother for not lending him money to repay the debt. Her father also asked my mother last time why he didn't lend money to his son to repay the debt. Didn't I make it clear to them before that my family bullied my mother like this before, can I still take it for granted that my mother should help me unconditionally? I told him that I would never ask him for help again, and that I would not buy anything I couldn't handle. This time I was really desperate, I was so sad at the time, and I even imagined why people like us are still alive, people who can’t even hold things without others, people who are dying at the bottom like garbage, what are you doing alive! Do I have a husband now? My life now is that of a single mother. I am not only a mother, but also a father. I really regret getting married!