Hardworking girls, may you marry a good husband and no longer bow down for five buckets of rice
Hi, everyone, I'm Tongtong's mother. Paying for my own car and traveling with my husband after marriage 8 years ago, I worked as a clerk I didn't like to make a living. I am the backbone of a family made up of my mother and me. We don’t have a home, and we need rent, water and electricity every month. I started with a salary of more than 1,000, and slowly I got 2,000. I don't like this job very much. My active personality is not suitable for staying in the office every day, but considering that this kind of work has a stable salary every month to ensure the basic life of my mother and me, I have been suppressing my temperament, How many people actually do what they love? Of course I shouldn't be hypocritical. I will count the money every month, I can't stop working, my income is too low, if we stop our economy will be in trouble, do we have to be kicked out by the landlord? I still have that self-esteem. Because of suppressing myself for a long time, my depression is getting worse and worse. I am no longer happy, and I have no one to talk to. After a long time, I don’t know how to communicate with the outside world. Afraid of seeing the cashier's eyes, I wear a mask to buy things. I usually save a lot. After all, I don’t have enough ability, so I have to save some points. Dumped around a little bit, so I could have some peace of mind -- I had some spare money. As a result, a deposit of 20,000 yuan and a deposit of 10,000 yuan to help my husband repay the debt were all emptied all at once. And my 15,000 is just a drop in the bucket for him, far from enough. Since he got married, he said he owed me some money for marrying me. After I found out, I felt very sorry. The company gave all the money to him when the New Year was approaching. I hope he pays it off quickly. Later, I heard that he still had a little car loan, and the interest was high, so I helped him pay it off. In fact, the money owed is not much, he can pay it back with a little effort, but he is lazy and delays. I persuaded him to be more motivated, not to play games all the time, to make more money, and not to listen to me. I reflected on whether I was asking too much and stopped talking about him after that. I didn't expect him to do such a thing behind my back and owe so much money. This happened when I was about to become pregnant. During my pregnancy and confinement period, he never stopped, and kept accumulating his debts. At that time, I couldn't eat well with my big belly. Dare to stop work, I hope I can bear as much of the baby's expenses as possible; confinement confinement, breastfeeding and eating a dish to save a few meals, I just want to save him some money, a little bit... I hope he pays off the money quickly . With just a few dollars, he can replace it with hard work. He wants me to accompany him to endure hardship. I always thought that I would pay off my confinement after confinement, but now I find that his credit check is not good. Why not, owe a lot of money. You owe me secretly behind my back, and you lied to me like this, lied to me like this. I used to trust him so much, but he deceived me like that. With so much money, you don’t have a house, and I will pay you off the tail of the car loan. What do you use to pay it back? Who owed your courage so much money, and you put all our future money into it. Why don't you ask me, if I marry you, I will save on a meal, go to the supermarket to buy fruits and only buy the cheapest ones at a discount, why am I? Save it for you to gamble? Why do you treat me like this, why do you bully people like this? Will I also pay you back when the deposit is returned? How can you be so irresponsible, how can you let me and the baby live, the baby is still so small, and I am still breastfeeding!