The 47-year-old male nanny cried and said: The salary is 9,000 per month, but I just want to resign, I feel scared
Foreword: Today's elderly people are very fond of hiring live-in nanny, because they are getting old, they can't take care of themselves, and their children are not around, so for their own old age and safety, they choose to invite live-in nanny, This way you can spend your old age in peace. But why are some nannies so distressed after agreeing to be a live-in nanny, and even want to resign? Mr. Lin is a live-in nanny. He said that his employer gave him a salary of 9,000 per month, but he just wanted to resign and felt scared. What's going on? Let's take a look together! 47-year-old Mr. Lin said: When it comes to babysitting, many people dislike it, because in the eyes of many people, they feel that babysitters are inferior, they think it is a job to serve others, and then they are reluctant to do it. I think the same way, and I think babysitters are generally women's jobs. Basically, no men do babysitters. When my friend asked me to be a babysitter, I immediately refused because I felt ashamed to be a male babysitter. , I am afraid of being laughed at by others. At that time, my friend was always doing my ideological work. My friend said that it is all the time now, and no one laughs at babysitters. They all make money with their own hands. Employers like to find male babysitters because male babysitters are more powerful. Having a male babysitter at home can save a lot of things. My friend also said that male babysitters usually have a salary of eight or nine thousand. I’m interested in this job, even if I’m laughed at by others, I don’t think it matters, as long as I can make money. Later, I went out with my friends to be a nanny. Because my overall conditions were not bad, I soon applied for a nanny job. I was a nanny for an old couple. They are all over 70 years old. They are old and take care of. I was struggling, and then they asked me to be their nanny. They said that I only need to do some ordinary housework. Usually when they go out to play, I have to follow them because they are getting old and worry about fainting and so on. . I don't think the work is difficult, and they pay me a high salary, 9,000 yuan a month. When I heard them say this salary, I felt very excited. I used to do farm work in the countryside, and I sometimes earned it every year. It was less than 9,000 yuan, so when I heard the salary of 9,000, I agreed immediately. Although the male employer is old, he likes to play very much. He often goes fishing with his friends, and even goes fishing in the mountains. At the beginning, I got along very well with the female employer. Later, I found that the female employer had a lot of ideas. For example, at night, she would tell me that she had insomnia, and then asked me to tell her stories. Men and widows live in the same room. The atmosphere is really awkward. Once, when I was telling a story to the female employer, the female employer suddenly took my hand and asked me to stay with her. She said she was alone. Very lonely, I immediately broke free of her hand and went back to my room. The male employer came back. After the male employer came back, I really wanted to tell the male employer about this, but I didn't dare. I was afraid that if I told this matter, it would lead to their divorce, and I would be a sinner. After all, Ning Demolition of ten temples will not destroy a single marriage. Now I feel that this job is very painful. Although I have a salary of 9,000 per month, I just want to quit my job. I am really scared. Every time the male employer goes out to play, I feel very tormented.