Husband spends 6,000 for mother's birthday, goes to mother-in-law's house empty-handed, wife: You don't deserve my meal
Foreword: Many young couples have said this at their weddings, "I will be good to you all my life, and I will treat your parents as my parents to be filial." This sentence is really touching, but there are a few people who can actually do it. Once something happens, the heart of the couple still wants to make it clear. Yours is yours, mine is mine! Let's take a look at Ms. Chen's experience! Ms. Chen said: My parents are my only daughter, so my parents did not agree with me to marry far away. They wanted me to find a local person to marry. At the beginning, I talked about a boyfriend who was out of town. At that time, my parents often Talk to me, and then let me break up with that boyfriend. At the beginning, I thought that the two of us were in love, and then we insisted on it. After a long time, the relationship faded, and then I also thought of a lot of things after marriage. Question, after weighing the pros and cons, I chose to break up with him. After breaking up with him, it took me half a year to adjust myself, and then I came out. After I came out, I listened to my parents and went on a blind date obediently. The men my parents introduced to me were basically local. He is a good person, and his economic conditions are not bad. Later, I fell in love with my husband. My husband's house is very close to my house, and his economic conditions are not bad. He is now a small supervisor of a logistics company, and he has about 10,000 yuan a month. The salary of money, in our small city, the salary of 10,000 yuan a month is really amazing, and he is a very gentle person, I like people like him, so I will stay with him later . After we were together, he took me to see his parents. His parents were very good people. When I went to their house for the first time, his mother gave me a red envelope of 5,000 yuan. When I opened the red envelope, I was very surprised. I thought his mother was a really nice person. I was not greedy for money, I just thought that his mother valued me very much, so he gave me that red envelope. Later, we got married. After we got married, we often went back to my parents for dinner, because my parents said that every time we went back, they were very happy. A year later, I found a strange phenomenon, that is, every time my husband and When I go back to my parents to eat, he goes empty-handed, but when I go back to his parents to eat with him, he buys a lot of things, so I feel mentally unbalanced, I think he I don't care about my parents. From then on, I went to buy things for my parents by myself. Every time I went back to my parents to eat with him, I would buy a lot of food and health care products to bring back. My husband was a little unhappy after that. Now, he thinks that my parents are in good health, and they also have pensions. They don't need us to buy things. I don't want to explain to my husband that we buy things from our hearts, not my parents. Later, it was my mother-in-law's birthday, and my husband bought her mother-in-law more than 6,000 items. When I found out about this, I felt very uncomfortable, because last time when my father's birthday was my husband went to dinner empty-handed. The day after my mother-in-law’s birthday, my mother asked us to go back for dinner. She said that her friend brought her a lot of seafood and let us go back and taste it together. My husband was very happy at the time, and later I said to my husband, “I will return to me by myself. You can eat at your parents' place. Don't go there. You are not worthy of my family's meal. You think about your parents and never consider my parents. You spend 6,000 yuan on gifts for your mother's birthday. , when my dad was celebrating his birthday, you went to dinner with empty hands. You have to talk about your conscience. After we got married, my parents were really kind to us. You don't deserve to go to my house for dinner." After I said that, my husband got angry. My husband didn't think I should say this to him, but I don't care. I think he is too much. If I don't say it, he will be more serious in the future. Excessive.