What it's like to be firmly liked
"Xiong, I just broke up, can I talk to you?" The girl who left the message told Xiong that the relationship that just ended had almost wiped out all her fantasies about love. During the six months of dating, the boy never introduced her to his friends, and he also resisted meeting with the girl's friends; the boy's job was very unstable, and every time the girl talked to him about the future, he would hesitate to talk about the topic Divorce; even if the two have already lived together, the boy will still send his female colleague home after get off work, and whenever the girl expresses dissatisfaction, he accuses the girl of being careful... "In this relationship, I have always been very humble in love, Especially insecure... Even when he mentioned breaking up, I still didn't give up and asked him, 'Have you ever loved me', but he was just silent and was no longer willing to answer my question..." "So, Xiong, he didn't really love me at all, did he?" Regarding the last question in the message, Xiong couldn't answer, and he didn't need to answer. Because, in the girl's heart, she already has the answer. However, I can't see the bears who are wronged in love. I still want to say one more thing to everyone: love someone who firmly likes you. Because ah, firm love is never ambiguous. On the contrary, it is like a reassurance pill that we can see with our eyes, touch with our hands, and feel with our heart. We don't have to repeatedly confirm to each other "Do you love me or not", because the feeling of being firmly liked is the answer. So, what does it feel like to be firmly liked? After reading this set of comics, you may understand. The author of the comic is a 98-year-old girl from Thailand, Wachi. The ins account @wadsi.kub.wachi, which she uses to publish her works, has attracted the attention of 32,000 fans due to her super sweet and healing style. From Xiong's point of view, the girls in the comics are exactly what boys like firmly. So today, Xiong selected 10 works from Miss Wachi's works to share with you. I hope it can help everyone understand what it feels like to be "firmly liked". Then, find someone who loves you so firmly~ When you are firmly liked, you will feel spoiled. Pampering means that when we gobble, the other party gently wipes the hand of the rice from the corner of our mouth for us. Doting is the loving smile on the other side when we laugh outrageously regardless of our image. "In front of me, you can be childish." When you are firmly liked, you will feel concerned. When you are in love, no matter when you look back, you can meet the tenderness in each other's eyes. "The person who loves you will let you live in sight." When you are firmly liked, you will feel accepted. Being accepted means we can be imperfect. It's okay to be imperfect in body, okay to be imperfect in character, okay to be sloppy and sloppy sometimes. True love is when the other person is willing to accept you as you are. "Whether it's good or bad, as long as it's you." When you are firmly liked, you will feel missed. The feeling of being in the heart even if we don't meet is the most wonderful. I have been busy for a long time and haven't had time to look at my mobile phone. When I finally have time to spare, I can always see the WeChat messages sent by the other party when I open my mobile phone. Send a sentence "I miss you so much", and you can immediately receive a video message from the other party. "Thinking and thinking must be matched with you, otherwise it will be meaningless." When you are firmly liked, you will feel cherished. In a firm relationship with each other, of course, I want to record all the big and small things together. If you don't record it carefully, you are afraid that you will forget it. Just remember the words in your mind, and you can't share them with others. That's what loving someone is, wanting time to stop, and wanting to be known. "Talking about you to others is how I miss you." When you are firmly liked, you will feel healed. Some people say that a good partner can reduce human suffering in half. When we are firmly liked, someone will listen to us patiently, and someone will give us a big hug and help us wipe away the tears from the corners of our eyes. It is loving and being loved that keeps us from being alone. "Since then, someone has asked me if the porridge is warm, and someone will spend the evening with me." When you are firmly liked, you will feel supported. Being loved seems to have a backer. No matter how difficult the world is, you can always put your guard down in front of your lover. Having a shoulder to lean on is already a great blessing in itself. "Since I met you, life has been short and sweet." When you are firmly liked, you will feel depended on. To be loved not only means that someone depends on you, but it also means that you can clearly feel that the other person is also relying on you. "Showing weakness" is also an expression of love. "You protect the world, I protect you." When you are firmly liked, you will feel like you are ranked first. Holidays must be spent together. No matter how busy you are, make time to meet. Will introduce each other to all friends. Never break up with each other because of anything else. Falling in love is the most important thing in life, no one. "You are my only passion and unwavering." When you are firmly liked, you will feel planned into the future. A person who firmly loves you may have countless beautiful imaginations about the future. But all these imaginations have one thing in common - you. Then say yes, we will go a long way together in the future, we will build a very warm and warm home together, and we will go to see the beautiful scenery together. "I want both the future and you." At the end of today's article, Xiong has two more things to say. The first thing I want to share with you is a quote Xiong recently read that he likes very much: "It's really not difficult to like, it's hard to be firm. It’s rare in the world.” The second thing is to tell everyone that Xiong has been firmly in love with you all the time. I want to accompany you for a long time, and I want to bring you many, many healings. If so, just click "I'm watching" and tell the bear hee hee hee everyone, good night~* Today's interactive topic: What little thing in your relationship have you ever felt that you are being firmly liked? Sprinkle dog food in the message area~