When a man truly loves a person, most of them will have these three kinds of manifestations, and they can't pretend
All my ambitions, but a life of freedom. Text: Little Moon | Typesetting: Moon Lane Haruki Murakami said: "Of course you can stick to what you like, but if you don't like it, it won't last long." The same is true of loving someone. Because love can do many things for you for a long time to change for you, but when you don't love someone, you can't hide it. The person who loves you makes you feel warm, full of expectations for the future, and wants to go on with him all the time. People who don't love you will make you feel tired, the days are far away, and life will become more and more bitter. If you love someone, the wind blows and the grass moves, and it's all on your mind; if you don't love someone, there's no sound at the grave. So, if you want to know if a man really loves you, you don't need to be tempted or tangled, just look at his performance. A man who really loves you will definitely have the following three manifestations when facing you, and he can't pretend. 1. Giving willingly Zhang Xiaoxian said: "The best mentality in love is: all my giving is a willingness, and I will never mention it. If you reciprocate, I will be very grateful. If you are indifferent, I will not Will be disheartened." A person who truly loves you will do whatever you ask for that is reasonable. A person who really loves you will take the initiative to take care of your life, emotions, and body. He will do many things for you willingly, without asking for anything in return, without any purpose, just wanting you to be well and happy. I saw a story shared by a netizen - my father and my mother met when they were in college. My father is tall and handsome, with good academic performance and many suitors, and my mother is one of them. After the two of them were together, they fell in love for several years. My father's home was in a remote rural area. Because my mother was an only child, my father stayed for my mother's sake. My mother joined the factory and my father became a teacher. With me, my mother was reluctant to give up the job she liked, and she found a few aunts who were not satisfied, so my father resigned to focus on taking care of me at home, and my mother also worked with peace of mind. Dad never complained about how tired and troubled he was, and he never told mom about other people's gossip. He still did his best to do laundry, cook, and take care of my mom and me. Later, my grandfather fell ill and was paralyzed in bed, and my father took care of my grandfather tirelessly, and my mother had no time to take care of me. I had great opinions on my mother. In order to ease the relationship between our mother and son, my father took me to my mother's work unit to watch my mother work overtime and stay up late, and watch my mother run around for performance. I hope I understand that it is not easy for my mother to make money and work. Sometimes I don't understand my father. My father's job is decent and respected, and he earns no less than my mother. Why should I choose to take care of my sick grandfather for so many years. Besides, outsiders and grandparents don't understand my father at all. Outsiders always say that my father eats soft rice, and my grandparents often say that my father has no job and no future. But my father said: "It's not that I don't like my job, and it's not that I don't want to go out to work, it's just for your mother, for you, I'm willing to give up my job. Compared with a housewife, your mother prefers work, and staying at home will only make She is depressed, will I still be happy if she is not happy?" I remembered what the writer Tong Hua said: "If you truly love someone, even if you give her the whole world, you still worry about not giving enough or being good enough." The essence of love is willingness to give. Because I love her, I am willing to make changes and sacrifices for her, and don't ask for anything in return, because I love her, I am willing to give my all for her, and only hope that she has a good life. 2. Uncontrollable Missing If you really love someone, just like the saying "If you don't see each other in one day, it's like every three autumns." He'll think about what you're doing, what you've eaten, who you're with, how your work is going, what's going on after get off work, etc. Even if you're not far apart, even if you've just met, even if you're likely to meet soon, he will still miss you. He wants to be with you, wants to see you sooner, and it is because he loves you that he does this. On the contrary, if he doesn't love you, no matter how long it takes, he won't think of you, he won't contact you, or even forget you. In the emotional world, no matter how deep the love is, the yearning is so strong. Only when a person truly loves you, can he involuntarily think of you, want to be close to you, and accompany you. When you meet such a person, don't feel annoyed or tired, learn to cherish, learn to respond, and love will last longer. 3. Always care about someone on Zhihu: "How can I feel that I am truly in love with someone?" There is a high praise answer: "In general, the more you care about a person, the more you will love her It affects my mind, always wants to take care of her, and reminds her, I always feel that she can't take care of herself." How obvious is a person's concern for you, how deep is his love for you. I will send you to work in the morning, no matter how tired you are, I will not be bothered. I feel relieved to see you come to the company safely. When you are sick and uncomfortable, I will buy you medicine and tell you to take medicine on time, rest on time and drink plenty of water; before going out When the weather is bad, I will put an umbrella in your bag, and I will worry that you will be uncomfortable in the rain; I usually nag you to wear more clothes not to catch a cold, to eat on time and not to lose weight deliberately, to rest early to maintain a regular schedule. The more he nagging, the more he loves you. The more he loves you, the more he cares about you. Only when a person doesn't love you will he keep a high-profile attitude, he can ignore you, he can eat and sleep with peace of mind, and he can have no trouble . A person who doesn't love you will not be willing to spend time, thought or even spend money on you. He will only stay away from you and not want to have any contact with you, let alone care about you and take care of you. When you meet someone who cares about you and tells you everything, just cherish it. It is not easy to meet, and it is the most correct to cherish the talent in front of you. May each of us be lucky enough to meet the person who truly loves us, cuddle with each other, and fill the vacancy in life with warmth. Above, share! Moon Lane, you can follow me if you like it, or follow my public account~ Moon Lane