A 45-year-old nanny says: The employer pays me 7,000 a month, but asks me to wash her feet every day
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The 45-year-old nanny said: The employer pays me 7,000 a month, but asks me to wash her feet every day. What's going on here? Let's take a look together! Ms. Liu, 45 years old
I am 45 years old, and when I was young I never imagined that I would one day be in the nanny business , because at that time I had my own small company, I was in the wholesale business of commodities, and I had a good income every month. At that time, I was thinking of expanding the wholesale business of shops and making money to buy a house in the city. But then because my mother was sick and hospitalized, I have a younger brother who is still studying and cannot afford to share the financial pressure. My father passed away early. My mother's medical expenses can only be paid by me. In half a year, I spent 200,000 yuan. Later, my mother's health improved a lot, and she could be discharged from the hospital to go home to recuperate. I was very happy, but in less than half a year, my mother's condition relapsed. The treatment cost was 100,000 yuan, and I didn't have that much money. I can only borrow it from relatives and friends, because to take care of my mother, I can only give up my career. When I was 30 years old, my mother died of illness. Later, I met my husband. After marriage, we raised a child, but the child was diagnosed with a serious disease. In order to cure the child, I borrowed another 100,000 yuan from relatives and friends. After my child was cured, I wanted to make money to pay off my debts. With the introduction of a relative, I started working as a nanny. My first employer was a 68-year-old man, we got along very well, and he paid me 5,000 yuan a month. Last year, the old man passed away, and I left. Over the years as a nanny, I have also successfully paid off my debts. I wanted to make more money for my son to get married in the future, so at the beginning of this year, I found a new employer. The employer is a 72-year-old Mrs. Chen, who pays me 7,000 yuan a month. At first, I thought that Mrs. Chen was very easy to get along with. She spoke to me very politely and did not make excessive demands. Last month, the old lady Chen suffered from gout and her hands and feet were inconvenient. At this time, she asked me to wash her feet, so I agreed. But later, Mrs. Chen's gout got better, and she still asked me to wash her feet every day. Mrs. Chen said, "I'm used to you washing my feet. As a nanny, you should serve me." I am very aggrieved, because old lady Chen's feet have a peculiar smell, and every time I smell bad. I used to think that old lady Chen had gout inconvenient, so I agreed to help her wash her feet. Now that she has recovered from her gout, she doesn't wash her feet by herself, so she has to trouble me. I told a few of my colleagues and sisters about this. None of their employers allowed the babysitter to wash their feet. I felt very unbalanced. Now I feel depressed every day, and I feel that the job of babysitting is getting harder and harder.