"My husband doesn't make much money, and his annual salary is only 800,000", the words of his ex-wife made the Phoenix man's heart pierce with a knife
Release time：2023-01-28 11:30:53 source：girasolehome.com author：Sentiment
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"My husband doesn't make much money, and his annual salary is only 800,000", the words of his ex-wife made the Phoenix man's heart pierce with a knife
I have wine and tea, if you have a story, come to me. Click "Follow" above, you are my person. 01 Stendhal's "Red and Black": "We see the world wrong, but say it deceives us." In life, what we see is either the truth or the illusion. Whether life will deceive you depends on whether you have the ability to distinguish between true and false. If you take the fake as the real and the real as the fake, your efforts will deviate from the right direction, and you will never achieve the goal you want. You can say that life has deceived you, but it also has something to do with your inability to distinguish between true and false. Pushkin's "If Life Deceives You", although it can give people comfort, we can't always let ourselves know later, and we can't always let ourselves seek comfort after being deceived. The more important thing is to learn lessons and practice. A pair of fiery eyes. When you can tell the truth from the fake, that's when your life takes a turn for the better, because you can change your way of life at any time. There is nothing to dare, nothing is impossible, as long as you take a step, there are all kinds of possibilities. 02I used to be someone who couldn't tell the difference between the real and the fake. With my limited cognition, I decided that life should be how it should be. We cannot arbitrarily say that this is the wrong way, the key is who to marry and whether the married life is satisfactory. This kind of thing should be considered as soon as possible, and stop the loss in time no matter how bad it is, otherwise your life may be unsatisfactory for the rest of your life. Take me as an example, after falling in love, the circle of life begins to be limited. On the surface, I still have friends and still interact with the outside world, but in fact, my life has always revolved around a man. People who stay in a fixed small circle, can't see the outside world, can't see other possibilities, it is easy to think that their life is how they should be. In fact, most of the cognitions in this state are wrong. I didn't think about this at the time. The next step in love was getting married. I thought my life after marriage would be very happy, but my husband asked me to serve as a nanny to my mother-in-law. 03 When I first started, I thought it would be very easy for me to just serve my mother-in-law without having to work because he was out to make money anyway. But after living with my mother-in-law, I realized that my circle has become smaller, like a frog in a well. If the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law don't live together, there will be conflicts, let alone living together. There is a big difference in the cognition and concept of the two people. The circle is too small, and I have nowhere to vent when conflicts arise. I can only hold back in my heart. Gradually, I feel that my spirit is not normal, and I feel that my life is very bitter and aggrieved. I want to go out to work, I want to be exposed to the outside world, and I don't want to live a repetitive life every day. Only then did I find out that my husband was a filial phoenix man. He did not allow me to go out to work, saying that my job when I married him was to serve my mother-in-law. If my mother-in-law is in trouble or sick, and she really needs someone to serve her, I have nothing to say. The point is, my mother-in-law has no disaster or disease, and is stronger than me. What is it that I serve her every day? Am I a nanny? 04 Only a few of my peers understand how I feel, others don't understand at all. When I wanted to break free, when I wanted to get a divorce, everyone advised me not to be impulsive. In their eyes, I'm a fool who doesn't know anything and makes the wrong decisions. I didn't expect to live like this, and my life is still very long. Am I just making do with it? The more pressure the outside world puts on me, the more I want to break free, like a spring, the more pressure, the more I want to bounce back. I don't want to rely on men anymore, and I don't want others to think that I can only rely on men to support me in my life. I want to rely on myself, at least in the process of relying on myself, I don't care what other people say, and I don't need any extra Who to serve. As for whether I will get married in the future, I don't want to think about it for the time being. But when I plucked up the courage to get divorced and struggled on my own for two years, I realized that my life was too limited. There are so many good men and so many good mothers-in-law. The reason why I didn’t meet them before was because I was tethered to a closed environment, and I didn’t have time to meet better people, so how could I fall in love? ? 05In my opinion, as long as any woman learns to rely on herself, the way out will be uninvited. Don't always worry about yourself, don't always set limits on yourself, don't always care about other people's opinions, these can't bring you real benefits, only through actions can you get real wealth. I did it anyway, and I taught my ex-husband and mother-in-law a hard lesson. Knowing that they were talking bad about me in front of outsiders, I deliberately let it out, saying that my husband didn't make much money, and his annual salary was only 800,000. Although I have exaggerated, it is not too exaggerated. In short, he is 10,000 times better than my ex-husband, and his mother is also 10,000 times better than the previous mother-in-law. My ex-husband and mother-in-law have carefully inquired about my life. After that, although they still spoke ill of me, they did not have the same confidence as before, because they felt guilty and knew that they were not as good as me, and they spoke ill of me purely because of envy Jealousy and hate. Although it is said that every family has a hard-to-recite sutra, and everyone has their own difficulties, it seems that there is no unified way out. In fact, there are, relying on oneself is the general way out. The only obstacle to this path is to make excuses for yourself. No matter how reasonable your excuse sounds, it's just an excuse, even if you say you're afraid to do anything because of your child, it's not because of your child, but because you limit your abilities.
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