The right person will stand in your future
All my ambitions, but a lifetime of freedom People really don't want you to be good or good, even if he keeps saying that he loves you. At first, when my mother said this to me, I was in my second year of high school and I just met him. Although I didn't quite understand the exact meaning of this sentence, I still swore to my mother: "I am so lucky that I met the right one. People, we will stand in each other's future." And he, my ex-boyfriend, we have been in love for three years, and the relationship has been very good, but all this came to an abrupt end when I was preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination. Some people are happy just by meeting them. We met at a dinner party with a mutual friend, because he kept telling his friends that his ideal type was a petite and cute girl, and when his friend saw me, he started to coax. After getting acquainted with him slowly, I feel that the other person is quite good, except that he likes to play games, everything else is good. So when he confessed, I agreed without thinking too long. Some people say: "Things that are too easy to get are often not cherished." But we did not. Every day we were together, he was very kind to me, he would accommodate my petty temper, accompany me to dinner, and pick me up from get out of class. , go shopping with me, and take me to travel to my favorite places. In order to buy me gifts, he secretly eats instant noodles to save money; he also makes me happy when I am in a bad mood; he also enlightens me when I do not pass the exam, and takes me to eat delicious food to divert my attention ; also reply to my messages and answer my calls while playing games. I always thought that the relationship is mutual, and the kindness I treat to him and the kindness he treats to me are the testimony of our stronger relationship in the future. Unfortunately, I seem to be wrong. Facing graduation, he decided early to work to make money, but I decided to take the postgraduate entrance exam two months before graduation. This is not my impulsive move, but a dream I have always dreamed of, but I have never made up my mind. Every road will have an end, but when we choose a different arena, the end of life will no longer intersect. We are all so eager to shine in the world we love that no one wants to give up their future for love. When I told him the news of the decision to take the postgraduate entrance examination, he was shocked at first, and then said, "Ang, this is it!" I didn't understand his expression at that time. There were surprises, dissatisfaction, disdain, and blame. There is no blessing alone. I can understand his mood. He has always thought that the two of us will graduate together, work as soon as possible, rent a house together, save some money, work hard to make money and save money, and buy a house and get married as soon as possible. I'm also very happy. He has me, us, and our home in his future plans, but he never asked me what I thought from the beginning to the end. So he would have the idea to blame, which I can understand. After graduation, in order to make him happy, we also went to Shanghai to play together, which is the place we wanted to come for a long time. After returning, he successfully entered a company and began to work and work. I quickly rented a house and decided to do my best to prepare for the exam. The outbreak of conflict may have started from this time. He hoped that I could accompany him to dinner. After get off work, I could go to his rented house to cook and eat together. He said that only then was the most relaxing time of the day; I would still listen to him at first, even though my review plan Repeatedly disrupted, changed and changed. He hoped that I could reply to his messages in time and answer his calls on time, because he would be worried and anxious; at the beginning, no matter what exercises I was doing, what materials I was reciting, what books I was reading, I would stop and reply to his messages and Phone, despite my anxiety and insomnia due to poor review results. He hopes that when he is resting, I can go to accompany him, help him clean up his room, watch TV with him, order takeaways and enjoy the only rest time; at the beginning, I will also put down the important things at hand and buy snacks and fruits to watch He helped him wash his clothes and clean up his room, eat takeaway together and watch TV together on the sofa. However, I don't know if he forgot, I am a person who is going to take the postgraduate entrance examination, time is even more valuable than money for me; concentration and efficiency are even more valuable than the momentary pleasure of enjoying love for me. important. For almost three months, my review effect was zero, because I cared about him, didn't want to lose him, and was afraid that he would think too much, and I would always focus on him, but I felt no love and concern except for waste. Because, from the beginning to the end, he never asked: How is the review? There is no comforting sentence: don't worry, just follow your own rhythm. He knew that he was my reassurance, but he not only did not give me support and understanding, but also broke my plans again and again. From the fourth month, I clearly told him about my plan, as well as my daily study tasks, when to rest, when to reply to his messages, and when to go to his house to help him with laundry and cooking. he. He listened, said nothing, and nodded in agreement. Just when my review state is getting better and better, and I think our relationship is getting better and better. One day, he posted a circle of friends - what is the experience of having a girlfriend who is taking the postgraduate entrance examination? That is, you can't meet, send messages, make phone calls, and make contact. In short, without this person, this love affair will be There's no difference if you're not in love. When he was off that weekend, I went to him, and as usual, he kept silent about my reviewing situation, even when he saw my glasses were red and swollen from crying. I didn't expect him to be like someone else's boyfriend. He could deliver me meals and snacks, help me make a review plan, give me good advice, enlighten me and encourage me, support me spiritually, cheer me up, Be there for me when I need help. I think this is not enough love! What kind of experience is it to have a girlfriend who has a postgraduate entrance examination? Perhaps, everyone's answers are different. It's just that in this process, love and dislike are very obvious, love and dislike are details, and you know best whether to love or not. That's right, I'm the girl who experienced a breakup during the postgraduate entrance examination. I'm very fortunate that I didn't have a direct job to earn money to buy a house and marry that person. After all, the postgraduate entrance examination is only difficult for a while, but marrying the wrong person will be painful for a lifetime. I hope that all girls and boys can be brave enough to be themselves, people who truly love you, and support all your decisions. Not only will you not worry about gains and losses, but on the contrary, you will feel the unprecedented happiness surrounded by love. The above is my story, share it with friends! Moon Lane, you can follow me if you like it, or follow my public account~ Moon Lane