The 60-year-old uncle fell in love with a 48-year-old female neighbor, and he doubted his life after falling in love for half a year
Foreword: Everyone's values are different. Some people think that only what they have worked hard to get is theirs. And some people just want to sit back and enjoy the fruits of other people's labor. A 60-year-old grandfather fell in love with a 48-year-old female neighbor. After half a year of love, he made him doubt his life. What is going on? Let's take a look! The 60-year-old Uncle Chen said: After my wife passed away, I lived alone in the old house. I also wanted to live in my children's home, but I felt very uncomfortable living in my children's home. After all, we are two generations. I know what to talk about, and I’m also worried about conflicts with my daughter-in-law, so I think it’s better to live alone. Anyway, I wasn’t that old at that time, and I could still take care of myself. Live in a nursing home. I live in an old community. Many of my friends have moved out, but I haven't moved out, because I have lived here for a long time and have feelings for it, so I don't want to move out. Some time ago, I moved here. A female neighbor, that female neighbor seems to be honest. On the first day she moved in, we met at the entrance of the stairs. She took a lot of luggage that day and struggled to move it upstairs. I couldn’t stand it any longer. She helped her carry her luggage. She thanked me very much, and then added my WeChat account. She said that we will be neighbors in the future. We need to move around more and keep in touch with each other. After all, we all live alone, and it is better to have more friends. of. At that time, we often ate together, because I thought it was too boring to eat alone, and she was also alone, so she could just get together to eat together. I treated her as a sister, and I told her if there was any difficulty, just tell me, I don't have any great skills, but I can still help. When she heard me say this, tears fell, and then she told me about her past, she married a scumbag, that man She was very lazy and beat her often. Later, she couldn't take it anymore, and then she divorced the man. After the divorce, she came to this city alone, she wanted to start over here, and heard what she said At that time, I really felt that it was not easy for her, and then I felt a little distressed for her. One night, when I went downstairs for a walk, it suddenly rained heavily. Fortunately, I brought an umbrella. At this time, I saw her walking alone in the rain. I felt very distressed, and then I went to help her with an umbrella. After that incident, I found that I had different feelings for her. I even thought I liked her. Although I also found such feelings incredible, I just couldn't control myself. Later, I confessed to her. I told her that I liked her for a long time and hoped that she would give me a chance. She hesitated for a while, but she agreed to me later, so we were together. When we first got together, it was still very sweet. We often traveled together and went shopping. After half a year, I began to doubt life, because she was too good at spending money, and she often dragged me To buy cosmetics and clothes, those things are not cheap, they cost a few hundred dollars a month, I spent 20,000 to 30,000 yuan on her, and my own pension is only more than 5,000 yuan, and I usually eat I ordered medicine. During the half year I was with her, I used my pension. I felt that it would not be a problem if it went on like this, so I separated from her. The author's point of view: It is really difficult to maintain a relationship like this halfway couple. Therefore, before getting together, you must think carefully. Some people are really not as good as they appear, so don't just get together. When the time comes, give everything, or you will regret it.