A 74-year-old aunt asked a 46-year-old man to be a live-in nanny: the front is very comfortable, but the latter is very annoying
Foreword: A 74-year-old aunt asked a 46-year-old man to be a live-in nanny. The aunt said that the front was very comfortable, but the latter was very annoying. What is going on? Let's take a look together! The 74-year-old Aunt Zhong said: I used to have two children with me, one son and one daughter, just to make up a good word. When my eldest son was in his teens, because of an illness, he left forever. When my son passed away, my wife and I felt very sad. After all, it was a very painful thing for a white-haired person to send a black-haired person. During that time, my wife and I grew a lot older, and our hair changed. When it’s white, we don’t dare to look in the mirror anymore. After looking in the mirror, we will feel even more sad. During that time, my wife and I always washed our faces with tears. Flow down. It took several years for us to adjust to our state. Later, our daughter also grew up slowly. After her daughter grew up, we talked about a boyfriend. My wife and I didn’t like my daughter’s boyfriend, because We feel that our daughter’s boyfriend looks dishonest, and our daughter is stubborn. She just wants to be with that boyfriend. My daughter has been making trouble with us for a long time to be with that boyfriend. Later, my wife and I have no choice but to do it. Agree to marry her daughter and son-in-law. When our daughter gets married, we also dowry a lot of things. As parents, we all hope that our children will have a good life. We feel that if we dowry more things, our daughter will have a good time, and then she will have a good life at her in-law's house. A few years after my daughter got married, my wife also passed away. After my wife passed away, I lived alone in the old house. At that time, my daughter also asked me to live with her, but I didn’t want to. I think it’s better to live alone. Well, I don't like my son-in-law, I'm afraid I'll have a conflict with him when I go there. Later, my daughter was going to buy a house. My daughter didn’t have that much money, so she asked me to borrow some money. With my daughter’s rhetoric, I gave my daughter my salary card. I saved more than 400,000 yuan in the salary card. There is still more than 7,000 pensions. My daughter and son-in-law have spent all the money in my salary card. After spending all the money, they still want to ask me for my pension. One day I heard a conversation between my son-in-law and my daughter. Said: "Hurry up and get your mother's pension back, and then we can enjoy life, she is an old woman, it's useless to keep that money," the daughter replied, yes, I almost cried at that time, my daughter raised by myself , how did it become like this? Later, when my daughter and son-in-law asked me for a pension, I refused, and I also got my salary card from my daughter and son-in-law. Since then, I have ignored them again, and I will ask for it later. A nanny came to take care of me, I hired a male nanny, because at that time my health was not very good, my legs and feet were not very convenient, and it was very difficult to go up and down the stairs. I think it is better to have a male nanny, he can carry me up and downstairs , I paid a relatively high salary to the male nanny, 8,000 yuan a month. At the beginning, I was very comfortable, because the male nanny served me very carefully, and under his service, my complexion became more and more the better. People in our community started to gossip about me behind my back, saying that I was with a male nanny, that I was shameless, and that my daughter and son-in-law didn't care. Going to raise a male nanny was really irritating. I thought I would be told this by the neighbors, so I went to find out the situation later, and only after I found out did I know that it was my daughter and son-in-law who told them that my daughter and son-in-law was trying to get revenge on me. Giving them money makes me very upset. No matter how much later, even if others keep gossiping, I don't care, I will never let my daughter and son-in-law's plan succeed