Not overdrafting yourself is a person's greatest self-discipline
All my ambitions, but a life of freedom Keep your breath and be patient." Everything has limits, it's too much to go too far, and blindly overdrawing is a disaster. Overdrafting oneself not only consumes one's body and emotions, but also makes oneself more painful. At any time, anyone can grasp the scale of anything and not overdraw oneself, which is a person's greatest self-discipline. 01. Don't Overdraft Health Philosopher Schopenhauer said: "The biggest mistake a human being can make is to exchange health for other things outside the body." Overdrafting one's own health is actually the biggest mistake of a person's life. I once read such a short story: "There was a ghost sitting in front of his tomb crying and dazed. The ghost next to him saw it and asked him what was going on. He sighed: He worked hard when he was alive, not only did he fail to make money, but he also My body is broken. I didn't go where I wanted to go. After I died, I could only be in the mountains and rivers, but I couldn't play! I really regret life and death!" The ghost next to him also sighed: "I knew that people will die after death. In the same way, I can only be buried in the mountains and rivers. Before I was alive, I would not fight to the death and strive for performance and achievements that were different from ordinary people! In the end, I can only be buried in the ground!" No matter whether you are poor or rich, your health comes first. bit. No matter how much money you make, your body will break down, your life will be gone, and nothing will exist. No matter how busy work is, remember to eat on time; no matter how hard life is, remember to rest on time; no matter how tight earning money is, remember not to stay up late; eating, sleeping, and resting is the way for your body to obtain nutrients. The result may be that money is lost, health is lost, and the gains outweigh the losses. Self-disciplined life, eat on time, eat well, work and rest regularly, go to bed early and get up early, and don’t stay up late. If you don't overdraw your health, you will win most of your life. 02. Don't overdraft money Balzac has a saying: "For those who waste money, money is round, but for those who are thrifty, money is flat and can be piled up piece by piece." There are too many temptations in life, As a result, our desires continue to expand, and the intensity of spending is also increasing. Saving money is addictive, and spending is also addictive. When the desire to spend money is out of control like poisoning, the only option is to constantly overdraw your money. Spend tomorrow's money to buy today's happiness. Day after day, there will never be money, and there will never be real satisfaction in the heart. Some are just emptiness and boredom that need to be filled with more money. Overdraft money, and when you really need money, the only thing left is powerlessness and regret. When your parents are sick and hospitalized and need a lot of money for treatment; when you can’t afford to eat and buy daily necessities; when everyone around you is living a happy life, you have a car, a house and savings, you can only cry. Learning to save money and holding a sense of security in your hands is more important than anything else. The real happiness is not spending money without any scruples, wanton spending will only make our life a mess, within the scope of our ability, working hard to live earnestly and delicately, this is the greatest happiness. 03. Don't Overdraft Bottom Line Writer Martin said: "The real self-discipline is not going out, but going in." A person can do something if he does not do something. Blindly lowering your bottom line, blindly changing your principles, or even having no principles at all, will only harm yourself in the end. Resisting temptation and keeping the bottom line are the principles of life and the magic weapon of success. You think that your hard work will earn you the respect of the people around you, the understanding of your colleagues, and the support of your friends, but the truth is that in the end you will not only get nothing, but you will also lose yourself. When you have no bottom line for others, you are doomed to lose your self and dignity sooner or later. This is like a person who has lost his roots. You have even lost your own roots, so how can you say that you are flourishing? A person who does not overdraw the bottom line, walks upright, sits upright, maintains oneself, and lives with dignity is a capitalized person. 04. Liang Shiqiu, a writer of non-overdraft relationships, said: "Friendship should not be overdrafted, and you must keep a few points." Don't love your lover too much, love seven points, and leave three points. Whether it is family love or friendship, excessive overdraft feelings, the relationship is destined to fade. No matter how close the relationship is, learn to maintain a safe distance. Don't talk too much, don't do things too well, there are back and forth, back and forth, and the relationship can last for a long time. For example, in order to win the love and trust of your roommate, you will do anything and everything. You come to sweep the ground, you take care of it, you come to the garbage, you clean the table and cabinet, and you fill in any forms and information that needs to be filled in. You go to dinner alone, but you bring meals to everyone in the dormitory. After a long time, they still don’t give you money. It's okay to be nice to others, but not nice to others, or even better than yourself. Your grievances and seeking perfection will only make them take it for granted. They cannot see your efforts or understand your hard work. They will only feel that you have changed when you suddenly burst out. It is natural for friends to help each other, but no matter how good the relationship is, you can’t help but overdraft at will. Maintain a sense of proportion, and can't overdraw each other's friendship at will, and the relationship can only flow. In the book "This Life That Can't Be Crazy at Will" wrote: "The way to preserve longevity is to know that everything is in moderation." If you want to be healthy and long-term, don't overdraw your body; if you want a long-lasting relationship, don't overdraw your connections; if you want to be happy For a long time, don't overdraw your feelings. The more self-disciplined you are, and you don’t overdraw yourself or consume yourself, the more blessed you will be. May we all live with self-discipline and have a life that is not overdrawn. Above, share! Moon Lane, you can follow me if you like it, or follow my public account~ Moon Lane