Women who know how to "please themselves" have these characteristics on them
"Pleasure yourself" is the expression of a woman's transparent life, and it is also a high-end lifestyle. When women know how to please themselves, their world seems to have opened a new door. The essence of pleasing oneself is to see yourself, pay attention to your physical and mental feelings, be able to live for yourself, do what you like, and please yourself. A wise wife is pleasing to herself. In the trivial life of a chicken feather in one place, they still did not give up the word "self". On the basis of seeing and recognizing themselves, they lived happily and satisfied themselves. Looking at these women who know how to "please themselves", it is not difficult to find that they have these characteristics more or less. First, pay attention to external image management.
The way you wear it is the reaction of your inner world. Every woman who cherishes herself and is full of love will not give up on her appearance. They cherish their external image and know how to use their daily clothes to manage their appearance. The clothes you wear on your body will not only affect other people's impression of you, but also affect your own mood. These women who know how to "please themselves" will not affect their mood because of their sloppy appearance. They carefully study what they wear every day before going out, and use simple styles to wear noble temperament. Paying attention to external image management is the first step for a woman to live a "pleasant" life. Beautiful clothing, exquisite collocation, and decent appearance bring women a good mood, self-confidence, and a state of happiness. Two, be willing to spend money for yourself.
If you don't want to be a "yellow-faced woman", you need to know how to cherish your appearance, your body, and your mentality. A positive heart, a decent outfit, and rosy skin are all things that only women who are willing to spend money can have. As the saying goes, when you reach a certain age, no beauty can be obtained out of thin air. Being willing to spend money for yourself is in itself a face-up to your own needs and pleasing yourself. Women should pursue a quality life and create a quality daily life within the scope of their personal abilities. When you live a particularly transparent life, you will understand how happy it is to be able to spend money to please yourself in this world within your ability. You don't need to compare yourself with others, and you don't need to pay for your own vanity. It is to face up to the individual's internal needs and fulfill them according to their actual situation, which is to "please" oneself. Third, have an independent hobby.
After experiencing the ups and downs of the world and being baptized by the society, looking back after a period of time, I found that these women who know how to "please themselves" will cultivate their inner interests and hobbies in a long time. For the boring daily life, having an independent interest and hobby, the life in front of me has also been redeemed, and life has also sparkled. Hobbies and interests don't need to be expensive, they just need to be realistic and cultivated in the trivial time of daily life. For example: Some people like afternoon tea, and make desserts and coffee as hobbies. Spend time every day for your afternoon tea, research new dessert styles, and make a variety of teas to match with desserts. In the process of creating beauty by yourself, I also harvested the delicious taste on the tongue and the satisfaction of the spiritual world. Such a state is a manifestation of self-satisfaction. Having an independent hobby can give you a moment of spiritual pleasure and soul satisfaction in the real life of a chicken feather. Of course, for those women who have already retired and have long achieved financial freedom, such a state is more of a normal state, and pleasing oneself is the melody of enriching the rest of their lives. If our conditions do not allow it, don't give up on pleasing yourself. Within the scope of ability, cultivate an independent hobby, whether it is tidying and cleaning the home, or storing and folding clothes, it can bring you an independent sense of achievement and redeem the boring in front of you. Finally, after reading the above article sharing, I hope that the characteristics of these self-pleasing women can inspire everyone, find love in every trivial daily life, and know how to please yourself, this is the fulfillment of life!