What happens to a man who has had an extramarital affair in his later years? 68-year-old uncle cried: torture is more terrible than divorce
Foreword: Marriage is like a magic box, it changes the men and women in the marriage, and this change is not the function of the marriage itself, but the husband and wife themselves are changing themselves, that is, men and women through this marriage bond Change yourself intentionally or unintentionally. Of course, good changes will promote the relationship between husband and wife and make husband and wife more intimate, while bad changes will be more tormenting than divorce even if they do not lead to divorce. For example: extramarital affairs, let's take a look at Uncle Li's experience. 68-year-old Uncle Li said: I was born in a pretty good family, my parents have good jobs, I went to high school later, after graduating from high school, I went to work in a factory, because my overall conditions were not bad , At that time, matchmakers often came to the door to kiss, but I am a very picky person. I don't like women who don't look good, because I don't think it's interesting to be with such women. I belong to the Appearance Association, I want my wife to be beautiful, and I want people to look at me with envy when I take her out. Later, I met my wife, and I met my wife through a blind date. My wife is from a rural area. Her family background is not very good, but my wife is really beautiful. Her skin is fair and her facial features are beautiful. Like a movie star, the first time I saw my wife, I fell in love with my wife, and then I silently swore in my heart that I would marry my wife home and love my wife for the rest of my life. Later, I began to pursue my wife, because my conditions were not bad, I had a good job, and she was a good-looking person, so I quickly pursued my wife. At that time, my parents were a little bit against it, because my parents wanted me to find a girl who was the right match for me. They thought that my wife and I were not the right match, but I didn't care so much. I felt that it was rare to meet a woman I like so much. I don't want to miss it like this. , my parents can't do anything about me, and later my parents can only agree that I marry my wife. After I got married to my wife, my wife was a housewife at home. Later, I found that my wife became unattractive, because my wife gained weight, and my wife stayed at home all day, and didn't pay attention to her appearance. She always looked disheveled. , I also told my wife about this problem, but my wife just didn’t want to change it. My wife said that she was already working hard and didn’t want to bother about it. At that time, my wife was really working hard. She had to take care of two children. I also need to help me take care of my grandparents. She really paid a lot for my family. At the time, I didn’t understand my wife. I thought those were all excuses. I thought my wife was a very lazy person, so I did something to be sorry for her later. Knowing this, my wife was very angry, but my wife did not divorce me, but since then, my wife has ignored me. Many years have passed, and I have also retired. I am now 68 years old. After retirement, I feel very tormented. I have this feeling now. It is a man who has had an extramarital affair. Life is really painful in his later years. Divorce is even scarier. Although my wife didn't divorce me at the time, she always minds my cheating. After I retire, she will go to live with my children and ignore me. Later, when I get sick, my wife won't come back to take care of me. , now I feel like a lonely old man, living alone in the old house, I really feel very lonely, I also begged my wife, I hope she will let go of the past and get along well with me, but I My wife didn't want to. She said that her heart already had wounds, and even if it healed, there would still be scars, so she couldn't forgive me, and I don't know what to do now.